“No one can know.”
That seems to be her cry, almost as much as her need to make the hurt,” GO Away!”
She’s afraid, alone and ashamed… and in the church.
For years she’s tried to do the ‘right’ thing, to be the Christian wife she’s ‘supposed’ to be. But it’s not making a difference in her marriage.
She reads passages like Eph 4:1-3 about ‘making allowances because you love one another’ and feels like…
---I have to put my husband first, regardless
---Whatever he wants of me has to be okay
---If I truly love him I have to let him be himself, even if…
It’s just all twisted up in her mind and heart, and if she admits it, in her body, too.
“HER body”. How long has it been since she felt like her body was her own? Seriously! It’s only for him, right?!
Everything about her physical, sexual, intimate life has been so distorted she just can’t see the Truth anymore. But she also can’t keep living this way.
Her husband’s expectations sexually have robbed her of her dignity.
They don’t have a lovingly mutual expression of bonding in their intimacy. What they do have is warped and cheap and degrading. And yet… they’re both Christians.
She simply CANNOT tell another soul.
No one in the church… No one in her family… No one in her circle of friends…
How she feels about herself, how she feels about who she is in her sexual relationship with her husband… how can she possibly put it into words? Say it out loud? Admit to what has been happening?
That’s why her need for PRIVACY is of the utmost importance.
Words like security, safety, and CONFIDENTIALITY are imperative for her to seek some help.
And nothing in her correspondence can reflect the topic she needs to talk about. The process must be so secretive that it becomes an actual sanctuary for her; a sacred space to meet the heavenly Father’s loving presence and begin her healing. She can finally tell her story. She can start to breathe again.
This is what happens for my clients.
Their concerns over their sexual intimacy (in their marriage) have plagued them for years. They’ve been super guarded with their issues because… where do you go so you’re NOT judged, but you also get help?
They come to me in a very private on-line space, in an All Day Session at a beachside location, or locally at my boutique office. Not only is the space safe, my attention for God’s healing of your heart is the safest place you can be.
And… I know your story, because… I lived it, too.
There is a future for you. It starts with HOPE. Let’s chat and see how working together can bring you answers and the freedom-to-be-you! Set up your call today. This is your time.
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