dear Church and Christian Leaders,

Serving God’s people, in the ministry and through community organizations, is always full of surprises. It’s a blessing to be there for others, but sometimes it’s just more than you’re equipped to handle. This is especially true in the delicate area of helping women recover from pornography, sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction. 

Have you felt your heart tugged by her isolation, pain and confusion, yet…

  • You weren’t sure how to counsel her?

  • You know that support requires time and commitment outside of your scope?

  • It’s just far too personal a topic for you to address?


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Hi, my name is Mary Whitman Ortiz.

I would love to help.  

Mary Whitman Ortiz is a certified Life Coach, Prepare-Enrich trainer, Adventures in Marriage facilitator, and Marriage Mentor with countless hours helping couples globally to restore their communication, connection and commitment. She also works with women recovering from Human Trafficking, Sexual Abuse, Abortion, Spousal Pornography Addiction, and Distorted Cultural Messages about Intimacy.  For over twenty years she's facilitated self-awareness and relationship development for corporate, church, and community groups.

Her books, "Why Can’t I Talk to Him/Her about Sex?" inspire couples to create a true connection in their marriage.  

Mary founded "Limitless Intimacy", a Christian movement for healthy and Godly intimacy. She offers training for church and community leaders via workshops. She offers relationship coaching in one to one format or through retreats and conferences. This restorative process can include inner healing prayer.


Why start a service like this?

I desire to help women because it’s an excruciating journey to walk alone, or with well-intended, yet uninformed counsel, or even worse than that, with shaming messages that create more distance from God. My personal story includes recovery from a 26-year marriage to a porn addict, rebuilding my life with God's love, and victory in a mutually honoring and God-glorifying union with my husband, today.   

What I’m offering

  • Leadership Training for Church Staff and Community Leaders

  • Speaking to women and couples on healthy intimacy, God’s way

  • Transformative coaching for women to rebuild their identity in God and empower their self-value

  • Restorative coaching to equip couples for healthy communication, meaningful intimacy and lasting commitment



Who will these services benefit?

My services are designed for Christian leaders who want to know how to support women healing from sexual wounds.

My services also support individual women and couples who want to partner with God to bring healing to their hearts.

This includes:

  • Restoration following struggles with pornography (both spousal addiction and individual usage)

  • Healing from sexual trauma (rape, abortion, miscarriage, human trafficking, and child molestation)

  • Wholeness for areas of dysfunction due to distorted messages in culture or previous church experiences

Mary’s coaching is such a powerful tool to start women on a path to healing and bring freedom. Because of her courage to share her story, and leave the perpetual state of being ‘stuck’, I am moved to ‘feel’ again.
— Lisa | Prayer Ministry Coordinator
Mary knows what she’s talking about! Without her supportive insight and real-life tips, I don’t know where I’d be. She brought me through to a place of victory and happiness.
— Jennifer | Small Business Owner
The blessing I felt working with Mary is wonderful! It brought freedom and hope to my heart. I’m so glad she is courageous enough to tackle such a touchy issue.
— Stephanie | Women’s Relationship Author


services include:

  • Speaking to leadership training and women's ministry groups

  • One to One Coaching, in person or on-line

  • Small group empowerment and support

  • Modules packed with activities and resources to assist her growth, healing and understanding

  • Email, text, and phone support

  • Social Media connection through private Facebook groups


Contact Mary today

to get started!

Click the link below to let me know how we can collaborate!