Frustrated Wife Disease and the 3 Mindset Shifts You Need to Overcome it and Get Powerful in Loving You
If you’re breathing and alive on this planet, frustrations are a given, but sometimes there is a situation where they escalate and need immediate attention. Could that be you in your marriage?
What is Frustrated Wife Disease?
1. Not receiving the personalized love and attention you want (includes romance)
2. Being uncomfortable with sexual expectations (in marriage) because of lack of emotional connection
3. Giving up hope he will change or ever do anything different than what you’ve always known
Does that ring a bell?
Sure, these are legit bummers. As wives, we do have dreams, images of beautiful marriages, and expectations for certain behaviors. But do you know what I noticed? All of those frustrations are about him, his actions (or lack of), and his perceived mindset. Hmmm…
Can you control him or his actions… like even one little thing?
That would be a “NO!” He is responsible for himself. You are responsible for you. So what can you do?
Here’s what you have control over. Here’s what you can do:
1. Act on your choice.
Your choice is either being power-ful or power-less. That’s right. You either choose to control yourself or choose to let others control you. It’s a head-scratcher, I know, but hang with me.
2. Know what you want and how to ask for it.
Does this seem like a ‘no brainer’? “Of course I know what I want!!” But sometimes we let our emotions get in the driver’s seat and take control, to the point that the issue is clouded and we don’t know what the problem really is or what we want to be different. And even after all of that we need to know how to put into words he will get… to stop an argument even before it happens. Yesindeedy, the plot thickens. There is more depth to this idea than meets the eye.
3. Face the problem.
When you gain truth about where your relationship really is (not just where you are hurt, or think he is wrong, or the what ‘always’ happens) then, and only then, can you find a specific solution. That will build trust and vulnerability, which leads to intimacy- both emotional and sexual.
Look at that!! You are so powerful! You can truly impact your marriage right where you are, regardless on ‘him’. Now, I’m not saying husbands should do nothing, but if you are only waiting on him to make the difference in your marriage, well, you have given away your power.
When is it ever a good idea to give away your power?
Exactly! The answer is… NEVER.
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~Heal your heart from past sexual wounds and lies
~See your identity in God (loving yourself through His eyes)
~Create a plan to share ‘you’ and grow the understanding in your marriage
Wowser! That’s amazing! But there’s more.
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~ (4) 1-hour private sessions
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