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the gift!

Find Out What God Says about Sexual Intimacy in Marriage.

women’s introductory group program  

show up, comfortable in your own skin.

 It’s true. You’re bombarded by sexual images in today’s culture. The media swings from distorted to perverted ideas. It’s anything but healthy, and usually invasive to your sense of right and wrong. At the same time, the church seems to suppress ideas about sex. And if you think about it or want to talk about sex, you may be shamed. It’s quite the tug o’ war.

If that isn’t bad enough, research tells us 3 out of 4 women experience sexual dysfunction, abuse or trauma. I’m sorry to say, but if this is you, you’re predisposed to a struggle with sexual intimacy in marriage.

I should know. It’s my story, too. That’s why I became a Christian sex educator, relationship coach, and author of “Why Can’t I Talk to Him/Her about Sex?” This tug ‘o war robs you of the thrill and goodness God designed for sexual intimacy in marriage. It eats away at your self-value. After my healing and training, something rose up big inside of me to take a stand and say: “Not on my watch!”

the gift: 4 delights to celebrate in christian sexual intimacy for today’s marriage

You need to: undertand sex from a Christian point of view without pressure or hype

You need to: hear objective information without having to conform or perform

You need to: feel safe to express yourself or hear others, and know you are not alone

Then, you are ready for God to bring healing and refreshing, so you can choose how you want to show up. (You may even what to share your new thoughts with your husband!!)


Sign Up Here for introductory group program. Special offer price + your testimonal gets you:

8 study guides, 8 videos, 8 weeks community support, 8 weeks unlimited email access, and 1 check-in coaching call.


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Hi, my name is Mary Whitman Ortiz.

I would love to help.  

For over 20 years, I’ve been helping people grow the connection in their relationships.

I know how pain from past relational interaction can damage your self-worth and prevent future growth in your marriage. I’ve been there.

God restored my brokenness and I’m passionate about showing others how HE can do it for them, too.

Don’t let your past steal your future. With the right coach and the right tools you can get the marriage you wanted, when you said “I Do”.

group program includes:

  •  8 study guides about how God sees Christian sexual intimacy in marriage, plus the most commonly asked questions

  • 8 videos with applicable truths and tips

  • 8 weeks of community support in a private facebook group (participate or watch only)

  • 8 weeks of unlimited email access (for ASAP help in a situation)  

  • (1) 15-minute check-in coaching call

  • Testimonial prompts to help other women        



how it works:

  • Pay Introductory Special $99 through Paypal (Reg. price $497)

  • Join the “The Gift” Facebook group by the Monday, June 29, 2020 START date

  • Complete weekly study guides

  • Watch the videos and group activity

  • Set up check-in coaching call

  • Send testimonial of your group experience

    consider these options

  • Early Bird Special: Sign Up by June 19, 2020 Receive ALL of the Introductory program PLUS “Understanding the Romantic Self” Self-Coaching Guide ONLY $79

  • Private Program Special: (2)1:1 Sessions Receive ALL of the Introductory program PLUS (2) 1-hour coaching calls with you or you and your husband, to apply these ideas personally, PLUS 3 Day Mini-Retreat, “Awaken Your True Self-Worth”, to complete at your convenience ONLY $299                                 




YES!! I want to sign up for “the gift” program 

Click the link below to pay $99.oo or schedule a consult to get more information.