‘Take the first step’ 

How to get the support you want to process your intimacy issues,

so You feel valued and loved in your relationship!

  • Are there things going on in your intimate life that absolutly can not continue?
  • Do you realize your married sex life is a reflection of your entire relationship? 
  • Is it hard to reconcile what God says about marital intimacy with your own experiences?

I know this first step is very difficult. You’re having to come to terms with some things you’ve stuffed away or hidden out of sight. If you’d known what to do, you would have already done it. So, now it feels like such a mess you’re just not sure how to begin. 

Sexual intimacy issues are THE most delicate to address. And, on top of that, if you’re a Christian woman in the church, you’ve also had to deal with SO many extra messages. The frustration, hurt, isolation, and even betrayal have robbed you of your peace and ability to make any changes on your own. But… it’s got to stop! 

It’s time to admit what’s been going on behind closed bedroom doors that you know is NOT pleasing to God. It’s time to ask for His healing, direction and peace.  It’s time to seek and receive His value for your heart.

These very personal matters are best addressed by someone who is confidential, professional, and like-minded. That way you get the support you want.  As an Intimacy Advocate & Relationship Coach (and a Christian woman who has overcome intimacy issues) I can walk with you to validation, healing, and creating the future you desire. 

Are You Ready to Procees Your Intimacy Issues and Feel Valued and Loved?



Hi, my name is Mary Whitman Ortiz.

I would love to help.  

As a Certified Relationship Coach, my focus is facilitating women and couples to embrace God’s design for love, sex and intimacy. This covers the whole range from dating, to married, to struggling with sexual wounds.  My mission is to support you as you create soul-satisfying relationships filled with authenticity, deep connection, and intimate playfulness. This begins when you see your identity through your heavenly Father’s eyes, with 100%, loving acceptance.  I combine my Master’s Degree clinical research and studies in Multiple Intelligences and Creative Problem Solving with my international presentations in Bibliotherapy, Women’s Empowerment, and Recovery from Sexual Trauma and Sexual Dysfunction to design highly effective, personalized coaching programs.  I also offer Inner Healing Prayer Ministry to invite Jesus into your journey to wholeness and freedom.


Why did i create “take the first step”?

I desire to help women become the free and fulfilled daughter God made them to be. When you know and love yourself, you are comfortable letting other people do the same. This interaction creates mutually satisfying relationships.  My personal story includes partnering with God to understand and rebuild my entire identity (during divorce recovery from a 26-year marriage), to knowing now that I am worthy to be loved completely.

What I’m offering

  • 1 1-Hour Call to Hear Your Story, Seek God’s Healing & Direction, and Create a Plan for Establishing Your Value 
  • 1 Activity to Assist Your Process  “Identify the Blocks to Your Intimacy Questionaire”  
  • Special Offer if You Book “Restoring Your Beautiful Heart 12-Week Program” following our call



Who will “take the First Step” benefit?

“Take the First Step” was designed for the Christian woman who is wrestling with sexual intimacy and wants healing and transformation, so she can value herself more and create godly, healthy emotional connections.

This includes:

  •  Women who feel like they are NEVER really heard, and no one is there to walk with them in this very personal journey
  • Women who are DONE with ‘putting others first’ (and other church messages that are conflicting) to the point of not taking care of themselves   
  • Women who are ready to move BEYOND the sexual hurt and devastation in their past, and finally be FREE as the woman God made her to be


Mary’s program is such a powerful tool to start women on a path to healing and bring freedom. Because of her courage to share her story, and leave the perpetual state of being ‘stuck’, I am moved to ‘feel’ again.
— Lauren | Church Ministry Coordinator
Mary knows what she’s talking about! Without her supportive insight and real-life tips, I don’t know where I’d be. She brought me through to a place of victory and happiness.
— Jessica | Small Business Owner
The blessing I felt working with Mary is wonderful! It brought freedom and hope to my heart. I’m so glad she is courageous enough to tackle such a touchy issue.
— Stephanie | Women’s Relationship Author

‘Take the First Step’ includes:

Step-by-step Guidance and Support to: 

  • Release the care of your intimacy issue
  • Hear God’s tender love for you now
  • Seek healing to start immediately
  • Receive resources to increase understanding

“Restoring Your Beautiful Heart 12-Week Program” is also available for One-to-One Coaching Support 


‘Take the first step’ details

  • 1 1-Hour Coaching Call
  • 1 Activity “Identify the Blocks to Your Intimacy” Questionnaire 
  • $75.00 Introductory Price (Regular $120.00) 

YES!! I want to sign up for “Take the first step!” 

Click the link below to start your registration process!