‘Why can’t I talk to Him?’ intensive

1:1 coaching for women

a safe space for talking about godly, healthy intimacy


Why can’t you talk about sex? Maybe it’s because of one of these.

  • Questions flood your thoughts, but it hurts too much to open up  
  • There’s such a fear and you need a non-judgmental sounding board
  • You have no plan for how to take care of your heart going forward
  • That kind of vulnerability just doesn’t exist in your world

How do I know about those possiblities? That was my life.

  • I was formerly married to a man addicted to pornography
  • The church leaders offered very little help, so I felt isolated and shamed.
  • My whole sense of worth, dignity, and identity were completely compromised.
  • God brought me healing and I am on the other side, ready to support you.

are you ready to finally have that heart-to-heart talk? 



Hi, my name is Mary Whitman Ortiz.

I would love to help.  

Mary Whitman Ortiz, MA, CLC is a certified Life Coach and a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator. She has additional Relationship training in Adventures in Marriage and Marriage Mentors, with countless hours helping couples restore their communication, connection and commitment. Her work also includes helping women recover from Sexual Dysfunction and Abuse. Many times Inner Healing Prayer Ministry is incorporated. This is in conjunction with her Masters Degree emphasis on supporting emotional and social needs through Bibliotherapy, Multiple Intelligences, and Creative Problem Solving.

Her focus as a Relationship Coach, Intimacy Advocate, Speaker and Author has helped women and couples globally, in person and online.   


What is ‘why can’t I talk to him?’ intensive?

‘Why Can’t I Talk to Him?’ Intensive is a 1:1 Coaching Program in conjunction with the discovery workbook, “Why Can’t I Talk to Him about Sex?”It’s for the woman who wants to be rid of feeling frustrated, unloved and shut down due to unhealthy sexual intimacy patterns. She is ready for new understanding, real hope and true change in her relationships.

What I’m offering

  • (2) 1.5-Hour Sessions, “Why Can’t I Talk to Him about Sex?”book, Personalized Worksheets, Materials and Resources, and Unlimited Email Support during your program 
  • Professional and Confidential Christian based support in a safe atmosphere to release your concerns, fears and disappointments, so you can rebuild with confidence and truth.



Who will the ‘why can’t i talk to him?’  intensive benefit?

The “Why Can’t I Talk to Him?” Intensive was designed for the woman who wants a safe space to talk about her concerns regarding sex, so she can restore her idea of Godly, healthy intimacy.

This includes:

  • Women who feel very alone as they’ve carried the WEIGHT of of their unhealthy intimacy issues, and it’s totally overwhelming.
  • Women who are DONE being in a never-ending cycle of frustration and hurt, that’s so intense they want to disconnect. 
  • Women who are ready to move BEYOND the belittling and shame in their past, that seems to plague them all the time.


‘why can’t I Talk to him?’ includes:

Guidance and Support to: 

  • Release your negative feelings

  • Receive truth and inner healing

  • Create healthy patterns for intimacy



‘why can’t i talk to him?’ details:

  • Private Coaching Program  
  • (2) 1.5-Hour Sessions
  • “Why Can’t I Talk to Him about Sex?” book 
  • Introductory Special: 75% OFF ($500 regular)
  • Special Price $125 
  • 5 spaces ONLY for month of April 


YES!! I want to register for “why can’t i talk to him?” 

Click the link below to register for the ‘why can’t i talk to him?’ program. 

You will receive a confirmation email with all the details.